When Personal Branding Turns People Into Products

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I want to talk about something today that sounds like marketing advice on the surface, but has somehow become a complete way of living for millions of people across modern culture. We are talking about the personal brand. I was looking through some old cassette tapes from my grandfather the other day, audio recorded on cargo ships and street corner recordings from Mardi Gras in the nineteen sixties, and it got me thinking about how people used to just exist and build a lifetime of craft without needing an official identity strategy.

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Just exist without a media kit, a style guide, and a content distribution schedule, you mean! Because everybody has a personal brand now, or at least we are told every single day that we should have one. Artists need a brand, writers need a brand, corporate professionals need a brand, consultants need a brand, influencers obviously need a brand, and even young people looking for an entry level job are told they need a recognizable professional identity before they even step into an interview room.

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And somehow being yourself now comes with a full corporate style guide! Choose your palette, choose your brand voice, choose your key message, choose your specific niche audience, choose what you want to be globally known for, and then, most importantly of all, do not confuse anybody by changing too much down the road. Which is such a profoundly strange request to make of a living human being, because real human beings change and evolve constantly across a lifetime.

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So that is our central question today for this full forty five minute exploration on Lagniappe Logic: what happens when a person becomes responsible for maintaining a version of themselves like it is a manufactured product? We are going to examine all twenty one core dimensions of this phenomenon, from corporate workplace traps to algorithmic feedback loops, mental health pressures, class signals, and how we can reclaim genuine human growth without freezing ourselves in place.

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Let us start right at Part One: when did people actually become brands? If you ask the average person on the street about their personal brand, many will say, oh I do not have one. But the truth is they probably do. A personal brand is basically the impression people have of you, what they expect from you when you enter a room, what they associate with your name, and what they think you are fundamentally about.

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And that foundational part is not new at all. Reputation is ancient. Communities across human history have always known people as the funny one, the dependable carpenter, the neighborhood troublemaker, the street poet, or the person you call at two in the morning when your roof starts leaking in a summer rainstorm. That organic reputation lived in the memories, experiences, and stories of other human beings.

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What is radically new is the modern idea that you should deliberately engineer, design, manage, and optimize that impression for maximum yield and professional efficiency. Which moves us from simply having an organic reputation to actively managing an engineered public identity. That distinction between reputation and branding is where all the psychological tension begins.

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A reputation happens naturally through your organic actions in community over time. A brand usually requires deliberate intention, calculated curation, and constant maintenance. The interesting question becomes: at what exact point does thoughtful self presentation cross the boundary into endless, exhausting performance? And at what point does that performance start draining your actual life force?

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That brings us straight into Part Two: the professionalization of personality. You see this everywhere in creative and corporate spaces today. Someone asks you in a career workshop, what do you want to be known for? Now on the surface, that is not a bad question. It can help people communicate clearly. If you are an architect specializing in sustainable timber framing, that is useful information for clients. If you are a horror writer or a wedding photographer, people need to know your domain.

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But then the question quietly changes over time. It shifts from what do you do to who are you allowed to be publicly. Because now the architect has strong opinions about culinary art, the horror writer wants to write a quiet romance novel, and the wedding photographer wants to direct experimental documentary films. And suddenly someone in management or marketing steps in and says, wait a second, that is not really your brand. And right there, branding transforms from a helpful bridge into a claustrophobic box.

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Consider the great example of the writer who changes genres. Imagine a writer who achieves immense success writing hard boiled crime detective novels. Readers love her. Publishers know exactly how to package her books. Booksellers know which shelf to place her on. Everything works smoothly. Then one day, she wants to release a quiet, subtle book about family grief. No murder, no detective, no suspense. Everyone panics, not because the new book is bad, but because the audience might say, this is not what I came here for.

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So success itself creates a trap! Once people know what you are, changing becomes financially and socially risky. The brand that initially helped you become visible transforms into the exact constraint that restricts your artistic growth. And now let us look at Part Three, where technology escalates this problem: the algorithm absolutely loves consistency. Algorithms do not understand human complexity; they reward predictable, repeatable patterns.

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If you post about cooking every day, the platform classifies you as a cooking account. If you suddenly post about architectural history tomorrow, your engagement plummets because the recommendation engine gets confused. So the creator learns a harsh lesson very quickly: people and platforms do not just follow you as a human being; they follow a content category. And once that category works, you are heavily incentivized never to leave it.

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Think about the classic example of the creator who accidentally becomes The Coffee Guy. Someone posts one funny, spontaneous video reviewing an espresso machine. It takes off and gets millions of views. So they make another one. That works too. Then ten more. A year later, they have hundreds of thousands of followers. But every single time they post anything that is not about coffee, views drop ninety percent and comments complain. They are now Coffee Guy forever, even if they secretly grow tired of coffee.

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That is such a profound cultural dilemma. Gurus tell you, just make what you love! But the audience and the algorithm have already dictated what they love you making. Which leads directly to Part Four: do we build the brand, or does the brand build us? At first, you select a brand because it reflects who you are. But eventually, you start making daily life decisions based on whether they fit the brand. That is a complete reversal of human agency.

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You move from this represents me to I must constantly represent this. Take the example of the always positive person online who built an identity around relentless optimism, gratitude, and daily motivation. Everything they share is uplifting. But then they enter a devastating year filled with personal loss, depression, or burnout. The audience expects sunshine. If they show their true pain, they fear losing their following; if they pretend, they suffer in silence. The brand becomes heavy emotional labor.

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And look at how this connects to mental health statistics. In studies examining content creators, researchers found that ten percent of full time creators reported suicidal thoughts related to their digital work, nearly double the general United States population rate! They cited relentless isolation, toxic comment sections, and constant metric pressure. When identity is commodified into a performance, the human psyche suffers immense strain.

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This brings us to Part Five: authenticity is now a performance category. We are constantly instructed by personal branding coaches to be authentic. Which is hilarious when you think about it! Here is a seven step marketing strategy for appearing completely unvarnished and natural on camera. Online authenticity has developed its own rigid conventions: no makeup, but carefully placed soft ring light; a candid photo, but perfectly framed; a vulnerable post, but expertly edited.

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So even raw authenticity gets branded! And that leads to the side topic of manufactured vulnerability. People have discovered that sharing struggles creates strong emotional connection and high engagement. But once vulnerability becomes a proven growth tactic, you start wondering: is this person sharing because they genuinely need connection, or because vulnerability performs extremely well on the dashboard? Sometimes human motives are mixed, making online authenticity endlessly complicated.

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Now let us look at Part Six: what happens to human contradictions? Human beings are naturally full of contradictions. You can be an environmental advocate who occasionally takes flights, a tech enthusiast who loves pencil and paper, a health advocate who enjoys greasy diner food, or an extroverted performer who needs three days of quiet isolation. Contradictions are normal, but personal brands despise contradiction because brands demand simple, streamlined clarity.

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Brands hate contradiction because neat categories are easy to market, while messy contradictions confuse consumers. Let us ask each other a candid question here: what parts of ourselves would completely confuse someone who only knew us through our public podcast identity? Ama, what is something about you that does not fit the porch storyteller image?

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People know me as the warm community storyteller who loves open mics and neighborhood gatherings. But my ultimate dream state is complete, off grid solitude in a remote cabin where nobody knows my name, nobody expects wisdom, and I do not have to speak to a single soul for months. What about you, Dutch?

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People picture me as the global sonic storyteller constantly collecting soundscapes. But I regularly experience severe sensory overload where I cannot stand any music or talking. I sit in complete silence with noise canceling headphones for twelve hours straight. If people only knew our public persona, those genuine human traits would seem off brand!

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Which brings us to Part Seven: the fear of changing your mind in public. Branding becomes especially dangerous when beliefs and opinions become the core product. Changing your mind carries an enormous public cost. If people follow you because you advocate position X, and three years later after studying new evidence you believe position Y, are you growing or betraying your audience? We claim we want people to learn, but socially and economically we punish visible change.

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Look at the public expert example. Imagine someone who built a lucrative career writing books, giving keynotes, and consulting on a specific economic theory. Then new real world data proves their thesis wrong. Privately, updating your worldview is intellectual honesty. Publicly, admitting you were wrong threatens your book deals, speaking fees, professional relationships, and social standing. That creates a massive financial incentive to remain stubbornly wrong!

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Now consider Part Eight: are we curating ourselves for people who are not even there? Over time, you do not even need live critics in front of you; you internalize the imaginary crowd. You start constantly asking yourself: should I post this photo? Does this outfit fit my image? Would my followers be confused if I started this new hobby? Would this opinion damage my professional standing? You end up editing your daily life for a ghost audience in your head.

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Think about how often people make everyday choices with an invisible audience in mind! What clothes you buy, where you eat dinner, what vacation spots look impressive on a feed, what books you display on your coffee table, and what opinions feel safe to express. We perform even when alone because we have learned to monitor ourselves through the eyes of a brand manager.

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That leads straight to Part Nine: when hobbies become content pillars. People do not just have relaxed hobbies anymore; they are taught to monetize or document everything. You like cooking dinner? Now cooking is a content pillar. You run in the morning? Now you are documenting a fitness journey. You read novels? Now you run a public book club. The hobby stops serving your rest and starts serving the brand engine.

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Take the person who stops enjoying photography. Someone loves taking pictures purely for fun. Friends say, you are so talented, you should build an Instagram page! They do. Followers arrive, engagement metrics start mattering, and soon they notice landscape photos get double the likes of abstract photos. Gradually, they stop taking pictures of what inspires them and only shoot what performs well. A sacred personal joy gets turned into an unpaid second job. Does everything you are good at need to be public?

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Let us look at Part Ten: the personal brand in corporate workplaces. This is not just an online creator issue; corporate HR and management push personal branding aggressively. Be known as the problem solver, the organized spreadsheet wizard, or the crisis manager. While clear communication is helpful, these professional roles quickly harden into rigid traps.

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Consider the reliable employee trap. One worker becomes branded as the super reliable one who never says no. Whenever a project is failing, dump it on them. Whenever someone misses a deadline, make them fix it. Being exceptionally capable becomes a punishment! Their professional brand is the person who can handle extra workload without complaining, and soon everyone profits from that reputation except the burned out worker themselves.

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Now let us examine Part Eleven: what about people who genuinely do not want to be public? Modern culture operates on the default assumption that public visibility is inherently desirable. Build your platform, scale your reach, share your journey! But desiring privacy is not insecurity or fear. Wanting your work to stand on its own without making your personal life a public commodity is a valid, healthy human choice.

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Is privacy becoming an expensive luxury? Historical creative models allowed artists significant distance from their audience. Today, audiences demand behind the scenes access, personal struggles, political commentary, and daily updates. Sometimes audiences do not just want the creative work; they feel entitled to consume the worker. Visibility starts feeling mandatory rather than optional.

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This brings us to Part Twelve: how branding extends into personal relationships. People begin selecting friends, partners, events, and social circles partly based on whether they match their curated aesthetic identity. Look at the interesting life problem: someone builds a persona around being an adventurous explorer. Privately, they crave a quiet weekend eating takeout in sweatpants, but the brand pressures them to keep attending loud events just to prove the persona.

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Which leads to Part Thirteen: personal brands and hidden class signals. Building an effortless, polished brand requires substantial financial capital. Professional headshots, sleek personal websites, designer wardrobes, curated interior backgrounds, networking trips, and aesthetic travel all cost serious money. Telling everyone to just build their personal brand ignores the real economic barriers involved.

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Now let us discuss Part Fourteen: culture loves simple character tropes. Human minds naturally seek shortcuts: the intellectual, the rebel, the funny friend, the serious worker. Once people put you in a category, they actively resist complex information that challenges it. We do not just brand ourselves; we constantly brand each other to make the world predictable.

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And Part Fifteen follows directly: when the audience feels entitlement over your identity. Long term followers start making demands: you changed, this is not who you used to be, the old version of you was better. Sometimes that is fair feedback, but often it really means: you stopped being the specific version of yourself that was useful to my expectations. Like a band changing their musical genre, some call it selling out while others call it evolving. Does an audience own the creative identity they helped support?

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That brings us to Part Sixteen: the heavy burden of becoming a representative symbol. When a creator becomes seen as the spokesperson for a whole community, movement, city, or generation, the weight increases exponentially. You are no longer just asking what do I personally think; you worry about what your actions represent for millions of others. That makes simple human mistakes or experimental pivots feel dangerous.

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Which brings us to Part Seventeen: are human beings allowed to outgrow themselves? Growth inherently requires inconsistency. You cannot become someone new without contradicting who you were five years ago. A completely consistent identity over decades might actually mean someone stopped growing entirely! What is a belief or habit you outgrew that once felt essential to your whole identity, Ama?

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I used to believe that to be a true community advocate, you had to say yes to every single request and public event. Outgrowing that belief was terrifying because I worried people would think I stopped caring. But learning to set boundaries was essential for survival. So how do we find a healthier approach? That is Part Eighteen: building a looser version of branding. A personal brand should be like an open doorway to your work, not a prison cell that locks you inside.

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Exactly. That leads to Part Nineteen: a much better question than what is your brand. Instead, ask: what do you want people to reliably find when they encounter your work? Is it care, craft, humor, curiosity, challenge, or intellectual honesty? Those deep qualities survive changes in subject matter, career moves, and personal evolution.

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And Part Twenty offers a concrete challenge for listeners: the thirty day brand break experiment. For the next thirty days, whenever you reject a book, an outfit, an event, a conversation, or an idea because it does not feel like you, pause and ask: does this genuinely not interest me, or does it simply conflict with the public persona I think I am supposed to maintain? Those are two very different things!

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Now let us do Part Twenty One: rapid fire questions to test these ideas! Ama, can you build a meaningful personal brand without social media?

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Absolutely! Word of mouth reputation built over decades of reliable work is the most durable brand in human history. Can a personal brand be too polished, Dutch?

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Definitely. When something is overly polished, people instinctively smell a corporate marketing pitch rather than a real human voice. Is inconsistency always a bad thing, Ama?

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No! Inconsistency can be evidence of active learning, curiosity, and personal growth. Should artists always give their audience what they ask for, Dutch?

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Sometimes, but if an artist only gives audiences what they expect, art stops moving forward. Should every single professional cultivate a personal brand, Ama?

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No! Many of the most essential, fulfilling careers in the world require quiet mastery, not public performance. Is personal privacy compatible with long term success, Dutch?

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It absolutely should be, and we need to fight to keep it that way. Can anyone completely escape being branded by others, Ama?

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Probably not completely, because people naturally form impressions. But you can actively refuse to let those external impressions become mandatory marching orders for how you live your life.

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Which brings us to our closing reflections today. The real problem is not that people form impressions of us. The problem begins when we become full time employees assigned to manage those impressions at the expense of our own growth.

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When we start constantly asking what would a person like me do instead of asking what do I actually want and need to do right now. Human beings are inherently inconsistent, evolving, and full of surprising turns. We abandon old beliefs, develop unexpected passions, get bored, become deeply fascinated, and surprise ourselves. That is not a failure of branding; that is the very definition of being alive.

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A manufactured commercial product benefits from total consistency and predictability. A living human being benefits from dynamic evolution, learning, and growth. That is the essential tension worth remembering as you navigate your career and public life. You can be recognizable without locking yourself into predictability. You can stand firmly for your core values without becoming rigid or stagnant.

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You can build deep trust with your community without promising that you will always remain identical to the person they met years ago. The goal of life should never be to maintain a static character logo forever. You are not a slogan, you are not a corporate marketing deck, and you are not a content category designed to satisfy an algorithm.

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You are under no moral or artistic obligation to remain marketable to people who fell in love with an earlier iteration of yourself. The healthiest personal brand is one loose enough to let the living human inside it keep changing, learning, and expanding.

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So this week, do something completely off brand purely for the joy of it. Read an unexpected book, try a strange hobby, listen to a music genre you thought you hated, and do not post a single word or photo about it anywhere online.

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Just to prove to yourself that you still can.

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Thank you so much for joining us for this forty five minute deep dive on Lagniappe Logic. Hold on to what truly matters, leave room for your own evolution, and give yourself space for the extra unexpected moments.

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Take care of yourselves, stay messy, stay curious, and we will talk to you all next time.

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This has been Lagniappe Logic, and I am Ama.

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And I am Dutch.

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Back home, we say, if a story stirs your soul, you do not rush to clean it up, you let it marinate.

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So if something in today's conversation tugged at your spirit, don't explain it just yet. Sit with it.

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Remember: culture isn't what we inherit, it's what we remember, remix, and pass on.

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Until next time, hold on to what matters.

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And leave room for the lagniappe, that little something extra only you can give.

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Peace and love, y'all.

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Catch you on the flip side.

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Stay true to your journey.

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Keep asking the real questions.

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And never let anyone turn your soul into a product category.

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Amen to that, Ama.

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Amen, my friend.

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Goodnight, everyone.

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Goodnight, world.

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See you in the next episode.

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Until then, keep creating.

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Keep listening.

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And keep evolving.

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Bye for now.

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Bye y'all.

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Peace out.

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Take care.

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Lagniappe Logic signing off.